Originally Posted by
408Mike
Re: Skatz- They are fine by me, I ask that people not insinuate I suffered at their hands or anything of the sort unless it can be proved/verified in some way to have been out of my control (IE I was forcibly returned to their forum time and again, against my wishes) (please have a quick laugh at that hahaha)
They weren't always the nicest, but in truth, I always had the option to leave, so anything shitty I suffered I brought on myself. The most important request I ever had was recently as I wanted to put the site behind me and asked they stop talking about me (primarily because it's in my nature to desire attention and I can't name a single instance where someone asked me something or said something about me online or wherever and I didn't find it significant and feel compelled to respond) and they did. I check once/twice a day and it's like I never existed, which is enough to make me happy.
I was never really wanted there (or here either, for that matter) and in truth, it was very fitting I went through so much shit there because the root cause was my inability to control myself. Without learning that very valuable lesson, I mean who knows...better an online forum than anything worse. I learned the hard way i am not nor was I at any point a victim and this means I am responsible for everything.
Apologies Cobson, thank you for your honesty and thank you for being there to answer questions and offer guidance over time. I wish you luck in everything that you do.
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