I respecfully disgree. Everyone recognizes people who are on the same frequency as themselves. Like a radio there seems to be more activity towrds the middle of the dial. (just an anlogy)
I 've been the subject of a number of pile-ons and considered myself, at the time, not as disruptive or mean spiritted as people portrayed. Either way, salt can make a big difference in a meal.
He stays if he ships me some purple microdot