I am not gaslighting you. In fact, you complain that everywhere has banned and ghosted you. On this forum, you are not banned, and people are responding to you.
So you have your soapbox. Present what you have.
I don't understand what you mean by a "simple protocol". This is a forum, not a court of law. If you wish to convince people that you were the one in the right, and that the other party harmed you without reasonable justification, you need to lay out the evidence in a clear and direct fashion. Otherwise you will get nowhere.
If you aren't ready to lay out this evidence, you shouldn't have created the thread yet.